Listed below are some of the typical beliefs associated with each specific personality disorder. Although there is some inevitable and necessary item overlap between nosological categories, these lists are helpful in making a diagnosis further, they will aid the therapist in targeting key beliefs for therapeutic intervention.
Check all that apply:
- I am socially inept and socially undesirable in work or social situations.
- Other people are potentially critical, indifferent. demeaning, or rejecting.
- I cannot tolerate unpleasant feelings.
- If people get close to me they will discover the "real" me and reject me.
- Being exposed as inferior or inadequate will not be tolerated.
- I should avoid unpleasant situations at all cost.
- If I feel or think something unpleasant, I should try to wipe it out or distract myself - for example, think of something else, have a drink, take a drug, or watch television.
- I should avoid situations in which I attract attention, or I should be as inconspicuous as possible.
- Unpleasant feelings will escalate and get out of control.
- If others criticize me, they must be right.
- It is better not to do anything, than to try something that might fail.
- If I don't think about a problem, I don't have to do anything about it.
- Any signs of tension in a relationship indicates the relationship has gone bad; Therefore, I should cut it off.
- If I ignore a problem, it will go away.
- I am needy and weak.
- I need somebody around available at all times to help me carry out what I need to do or in case something bad happens.
- My helper can be nurturant, supportive. and confident - if he or she wants to be.
- I am helpless when I'm left on my own.
- I am basically alone - unless I can attach myself to a stronger person.
- The worst possible thing would be to be abandoned.
- If I am not loved, I will always be unhappy.
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Listed below are some of the typical beliefs associated with each specific personality disorder. Although there is some inevitable and necessary item overlap between nosological categories, these lists are helpful in making a diagnosis further, they will aid the therapist in targeting key beliefs for therapeutic intervention.
Check all that apply:
- I must do nothing to offend my supporter or helper.
- I must be subservient in order to maintain his or her good will.
- I must maintain access to him or her at all times.
- I should cultivate as intimate a relationship as possible.
- I can't make decisions on my own.
- I can't cope as other people can.
- I need others to help me make decisions or tell me what to do.
- I am self-sufficient, but I do need others to help me reach my goals.
- The only way I can preserve my self-respect is by asserting myself indirectly- for example, by not carrying out instructions exactly.
- I like to be attached to people but I am unwilling to pay the price of being dominated.
- Authority figures tend to be intrusive, demanding, interfering, and controlling.
- I have to resist the domination of authorities but at the same time maintain their approval and acceptance.
- Being controlled or dominated by others is intolerable.
- I have to do things my own way.
- Making deadlines, complying with demands, and conforming are direct blows to my pride and self-sufficiency.
- If I follow the rules the way people expect, it will inhibit my freedom of action.
- It is best not to express my anger directly but to show my displeasure by not conforming.
- I know what's best for me and other people shouldn't tell me what to do.
- Rules are arbitrary and stifle me.
- Other people are often too demanding.
- If I regard people as too bossy, I have a right to disregard their demands.
- I am fully responsible for myself and others.
- I have to depend on myself to see things get done.
- Others tend to be too casual, often irresponsible, self-indulgent, or incompetent.
- It is important to do a perfect job on everything.
- I need order, systems, and rules in order to get the job done properly.
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